Wednesday, 11 May 2016

May 10, 2016 - Dream Catcher


She pulls the paper plate from her backpack. Strung with yarn, feathers and beads, enlivened with oil pastel - how did they know she needed a dream catcher?

"Wow! Look at this! Can I hang it up?" I look toward the kitchen wall; is there space for this work of art?

Tuesday, 10 May 2016

May 9, 2016 - Where my son sits; where my daughter used to sleep

Chair and footstool - new friend; brown blanket - India, before me; bed frame - Craigslist; coffee table - alley (thanks Linda); diner cup - Prophouse Restaurant close-out; carpet - seized property auction (thanks husband);  red blanket, cabinet, painted by me - Costco;
wall colour: Benjamin Moore Camouflage - Chris A
Cardboard boxes - what's going to Daddy's
My husband is dismantling our daughter's bed. He carries it down the narrow stairs, piece by piece, to the living room: a blue and white picket fence leaning against the melted-ice-cream-textured fireplace. My daughter inspects it when she returns home from school.

"It's getting closer," she says. "It's getting closer, going to Richmond." She goes upstairs to her emptying room. "Look at my bedroom," she tells me. "Go inside. I'm lucky. My bedroom is clean... I guess it's a play room now."

Cheapola glassware (fireplace shelves) - alleys and free boxes; cast iron love note bowl - Ontario; mirror - estate sale; tree of life (hanging) - Metepec, Mexico; Pineapple boy (window ledge) - Taxco, Mexico; red chair - neighbour's mother

My son has a heart as pure and good as an angel. A swearing angel whose vocabulary is guns and strategy and dank memes, which I'm not permitted to repeat.

When he drives he takes me to places of bizarre imagination, wonderful surprises, and clever wit I simply do not understand on my own. When we connect he guides me there. I give over my confusion, my exasperation, and I can see - not the sharp tip of the pyramid showing above the sand, but the base that supports it, buried deep below. It is a foundation of caring, tolerance, openness, desire to do good, temperance, and love. 

Monday, 9 May 2016

May 9, 2016 - Daughter's Bedroom

"There was a space there, and a window, but no walls, no floors, and no way to get in. We were hoping to find treasure, but all we found was a desiccated rodent, and some old newspaper, stuffed around the windows. I put it in the blue bag. I don't remember how we disposed of the - what was that thing we found, a rat?"

"I don't remember."
  • Wall colour: Dulux Strawberry Puff - Chris
  • curtains, lampshade - me
  • cardboard-and-glue-gun doll house - Dr. R
  • felt pen tote tray, home-made doll cradle, ceramic elephant lamp, framed picture of two dogs, square nicknack shelves - yard sale or alley
  • bedside table, bureau and mirror (not shown) - Carol and Chris (refinished with auto paint in a home-built spray box)
  • Second hand American Girl doll - Craigslist (thanks, Laura)
  • Rose's bed and bedding - with love, from Grandma
  • Braided carpet of my childhood bed sheets - me; started before I got pregnant with my son, finished just before my daughter came
  • Back brace - Ortho Dynamics
  • Flooring - reclaimed from a house like this one